The Pastor Cornered - December 31, 2008
by aduncan ~ December 31st, 2008Judy and I had the joy of having our daughters, their husbands, and our three angelic grandchildren with us for Christmas and the day after. On this Monday after Christmas, the walls of our house are just beginning to settle down a bit. There was much joy and laughter and a few tears, and there is one occurrence that I want to tell you about.
During dinner on Friday evening, five-year-old Mary Haisten’s halo must have slipped just a tad; and she was having a difficult time with her dinner. In less than an angelic way, she asked her mother to cut up her ham for her. Amy was trying to help her ask more politely; so she suggested that Mary Haisten might say, “Mama, would you cut up my ham for me, please?”
Mary Haisten said: “That’s too many questions,” to which Amy responded, “It is only one question” as she repeated the question. Then Mary Haisten quickly retorted, “Well, it’s too many syllables!” We counted 11 of them.
What she was trying to say, I think, was that that was too much to have to say to have her demand – oops, request – met. She wasn’t in the mood for politeness. She just wanted her ham cut up, and she didn’t want to have to say a whole lot to make it happen. Her patience had long since been depleted, and she felt she wasn’t getting her message across.
Well, whatever the reason, it seems we sometimes get impatient in getting our message across, whether it be with our children, parents, friends or co-workers. We have to use too many syllables. However, in this Christmas season, I want us to be reminded that we have a very important message to get across. Sometimes we’ll need to use a lot of syllables. More than likely we’ll need only a few. Sometimes we won’t even have to speak one syllable. It may all just be in the way we act.
In our traditional worship services this past Sunday, we used fewer syllables than usual in our Affirmation of Faith: “Christ is born! God is incarnate among us and lives and reigns with us forever. Thanks be to God. Amen.” At the conclusion of these services, we sang “Go tell it on the mountain that Jesus Christ is born.” It doesn’t always take a lot of words to share our faith.
I hope and pray that because we have celebrated The Birth that we are more eager than ever to tell about it wherever we are. Sometimes, often times, words are not even necessary. They may even get in the way. And politeness really is important, even when we don’t feel we are getting the message across. I don’t really think Amy was trying to “make” Mary Haisten be polite just for that moment. I believe she was using that as a teachable moment to help Mary Haisten realize the importance of politeness always. Folks are not going to pay much attention to what we say if we don’t let our actions accompany our words.
“God sent us salvation that blessed Christmas morn” are the concluding words of the hymn we sang. For that we give thanks. May we live those words as well as speak them.
Go. Tell it. Live it!
- Jim
